A Cast-Iron Will

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For the generations who grew up hoping to bequeath and to inherit – Melita Jackson’s and Heather Ilott’s generations, roughly – this is a sharp disappointment. These adverts enable local businesses to get in front of their target audience – the local community. The middle classes across the 20th century,” Harper says, “wanted to leave something to their children in the way that the very wealthy had before the first world war. I didn’t want Fred to be remembered as a man who cut his wife out of his will because that wasn’t the Fred I knew. Most people think this drives a coach and horses through someone’s autonomy to leave their estate to who they want.

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After a successful stage career that took her all over the world, she met Fred Dibnah in 1996 and married him two years later. Instead she left her whole estate (principally comprising her house) to three animal charities she cared little for, and followed this with a letter to the Ilotts telling them about it. There’s a very traditional generational contract, which is based on support and care in older age,” Harper says. People are only realising it slowly, but this means that in England and Wales you are no longer completely free to bequeath what you want to who you wish. They’ve had fewer children [to provide for them later] and they live longer, so they have a longer time, potentially, in frailty.Smallcombe says many of her clients come to her saying only that their treatment in a will has been unfair, and she then informs them that this option exists. People are already having to take great care over excluding people from their wills, and soon others might begin to act as if they know they can’t be disinherited.

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The divorce rate is falling now, but higher rates of divorce in recent decades have created many second and third families, who don’t always agree about what should happen when someone dies. Unfortunately for the offspring, this also means watching what they’d started to think of as their inheritance being slowly spent. It was intended to help protect the close dependents of someone who has died – preventing a step-parent from impoverishing the children by walking off with everything, for example (exactly as happened to the retail expert Mary Portas and her brother when they were teenagers). Mrs Dibnah also backed a campaign by Leon Powsney, who has turned the couple’s former Radcliffe Road house into a heritage centre, to bring the engine home.

Perhaps Melita’s reasons went all the way back to the summer of 1960, three months before Heather was born, when Heather’s father had died suddenly in an industrial accident, leaving Melita pregnant and alone. As a child – and much to her mother’s despair – she was more interested in toy cars, spanners and dirty grid-lids than the more traditional girl’s pursuits. She and the estate eventually reached a settlement, so her case – like most cases – never reached court. My private-client colleagues were absolutely outraged at the first Ilott decision,” says Amanda Smallcombe, a partner who specialises in Inheritance Act cases at the law firm Birkett Long. In March 1984, when things were still very strained between them, Melita took the ultimate sanction available to a parent: she formally disinherited Heather and wrote her out of her will.